What You Shouldn’t Tell Your Children

What you shouldn’t tell your children

Ever wonder what you shouldn’t tell your children? Are there some things that you just shouldn’t talk about with your kids?

I’m going to answer that question BOLDLY!

TELL YOUR CHILDREN EVERYTHING!

We are called to teach them what is right, what is true and what is not. The truth is if we don’t talk to our children about certain things in life they will discover things for themselves or be introduced to things from unreliable sources, create their own ideas on the matter and in many cases believe things that aren’t true.

There were so many questions I had growing up but didn’t feel like I could ask my parents. I came to some horrible conclusions about life, money, girls, sex, you name it! Left to my own thoughts and conclusions at a young age proved to be destructive, I didn’t know who I was or why I was here. I even had suicidal thoughts because I didn’t understand life and the confusion brought me great pain. But thanks be to God I found the truth at rock bottom (the sad thing is many people never do).

You know that a study was done this year that says nine out of ten boys see pornography by the age of eight. Do you know where they see it more than anywhere else? The bus stop! School. With friends. All you need is a smart phone, or any other device for that matter.

Hear me say this loudly:

If you are not talking to your children about EVERYTHING I can promise you somebody else is!

Be the voice you want them to hear, teach them at a young age so when they do encounter something new (that they may be unsure about) they already know what to do because you’ve had the conversation.

Every chance you get, take it! On a car ride, at dinner, at the mall or the playground. Teach your children the truth! Teach them to love God! Teach them to listen to the Holy Spirit. Prepare them for life in the real world. Talk to them about difficult things now so that you will save them from experiencing difficult things later.

I hope you hear my heart and I hope you start talking…about EVERYTHING!

“You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart, with all your soul, and with all your strength. And these words which I command you today shall be in your heart. You shall teach them diligently to your children, and shall talk of them when you sit in your house, when you walk by the way, when you lie down, and when you rise up.” Deuteronomy 6:5-7

Praying for you my friends,

~John

PS Start Talking